{"id":237664,"date":"2019-11-01T12:59:17","date_gmt":"2019-11-01T07:59:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/?p=237664"},"modified":"2019-11-01T12:59:17","modified_gmt":"2019-11-01T07:59:17","slug":"women-should-rape-men-if-they-want-equality-khalil-ur-rehman-qamar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/women-should-rape-men-if-they-want-equality-khalil-ur-rehman-qamar\/","title":{"rendered":"Women Should Rape Men If They Want Equality : Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Much like the rest of the world, the South Asian community is also working on women-centric film and drama. Yet, famed writer Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar can&#8217;t wrap his head around gender equality.<\/p>\n<p>The <strong><em>Kaaf Kangana<\/em><\/strong> director is under fire for saying;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;Women should rape men if they want equality,&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>While Bollywood is catching on with films like <strong><em>Mission Mangal<\/em><\/strong>, Pakistan&#8217;s Oscar entry <strong><em>Laal Kabotaar<\/em><\/strong> featured a female protagonist.<\/p>\n<div data-mode=\"normal\" data-provider=\"facebook\" id=\"arve-facebook-httpswebfacebookcompaindupkvideos545450222898866v545450222898866_rdc1_rdr\" style=\"max-width:662px;\" class=\"arve\">\n<div class=\"arve-inner\">\n<div class=\"arve-embed arve-embed--has-aspect-ratio\">\n<div class=\"arve-ar\" style=\"padding-top:56.250000%\"><\/div>\n<p>\t\t\t<iframe allow=\"accelerometer &#039;none&#039;;autoplay &#039;none&#039;;bluetooth &#039;none&#039;;browsing-topics &#039;none&#039;;camera &#039;none&#039;;clipboard-read &#039;none&#039;;clipboard-write;display-capture &#039;none&#039;;encrypted-media &#039;none&#039;;gamepad &#039;none&#039;;geolocation &#039;none&#039;;gyroscope &#039;none&#039;;hid &#039;none&#039;;identity-credentials-get &#039;none&#039;;idle-detection &#039;none&#039;;keyboard-map &#039;none&#039;;local-fonts;magnetometer &#039;none&#039;;microphone &#039;none&#039;;midi &#039;none&#039;;otp-credentials &#039;none&#039;;payment &#039;none&#039;;picture-in-picture;publickey-credentials-create &#039;none&#039;;publickey-credentials-get &#039;none&#039;;screen-wake-lock &#039;none&#039;;serial &#039;none&#039;;summarizer &#039;none&#039;;sync-xhr;usb &#039;none&#039;;web-share;window-management &#039;none&#039;;xr-spatial-tracking &#039;none&#039;;\" allowfullscreen=\"\" class=\"arve-iframe fitvidsignore\" credentialless data-arve=\"arve-facebook-httpswebfacebookcompaindupkvideos545450222898866v545450222898866_rdc1_rdr\" data-lenis-prevent=\"\" data-src-no-ap=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fweb.facebook.com%2Fpaindupk%2Fvideos%2F545450222898866%2F%3Fv%3D545450222898866&amp;_rdc=1&amp;_rdr&amp;autoplay=0\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"372.375\" loading=\"lazy\" name=\"\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-presentation allow-popups allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\" scrolling=\"no\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fweb.facebook.com%2Fpaindupk%2Fvideos%2F545450222898866%2F%3Fv%3D545450222898866&#038;_rdc=1&#038;_rdr&#038;autoplay=0\" title=\"\" width=\"662\"><\/iframe><\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: center; letter-spacing: 5px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0;\">ALSO READ<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"font-size: 20px; font-weight: 600; font-family: Raleway ,sans-serif;\" href=\"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/eshal-fayyaz-becomes-the-butt-of-the-joke-over-her-accent-video\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Eshal Fayyaz Becomes The Butt of the Joke Over Her Accent [Video]<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Some people just cannot seem to swallow that the tide has changed. Amid the debate around Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar&#8217;s recent misogynistic remark, netizens brought up how this has been a key element of his write-ups. This time around the chauvinism was blatant<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cIf you wish to strive for equality then kidnap men as well. Rob a bus, gang rape a man, so that I can understand what you [women] mean by equality.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Those unnecessary slaps. And most importantly mehwish going back to humayun at the end despite all the shitty things that he&#39;d done to her. Fawad khagga was such a toxic character.<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; ibad \/\/ (@isyedibad) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/isyedibad\/status\/1189869178225868800?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 31, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>For example, just his recent offering <strong><em>Mere Pass Tum Ho<\/em><\/strong> followed a beautiful woman Mehwish that leaves a dotting husband Danish for a richer man Shahwar. Research actually cuts down the stereotype, with evidence women leave abusive marriages. Lawyer Aliya Malik told <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reuters.com\/article\/us-pakistan-divorce\/pakistani-women-turn-to-once-taboo-divorce-to-escape-abuse-idUSBRE90806J20130109\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">Reuters <\/a>domestic violence was one of the most common reasons for divorce.<\/p>\n<p>A 2011 Thomson Reuters Foundation poll found some 90% of Pakistani women experienced domestic violence at least once. Yet there are still men that don&#8217;t see the point of equal rights and equal opportunity.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, his statements just further emphasized his firm belief in gender-based myths. Shame is a socially induced sentiment. We feel shame when shamed for something by our community.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cI\u2019ve observed when a married woman cheats, she doesn\u2019t feel ashamed at all. The reason behind her not feeling guilty is because she has been backed by another man. When an unmarried woman cheats, she feels guilty &#8230; But when a married man betrays his wife, he feels guilty. He feels embarrassed.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Of course, netizens didn&#8217;t appreciate this blast from the archaic past.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Khalil ur Rehman Qamar is a proper misogynist. He claims that when a woman cheats she\u2019s very confident.<\/p>\n<p>What world does he live in? In the subcontinent where women are killed in the name of mere suspicion over character, he has the audacity to believe this. <\/p>\n<p>Ridic.<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Mahwash Ajaz \ud83c\uddf5\ud83c\uddf0 (@mahwashajaz_) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/mahwashajaz_\/status\/1189557048897343488?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 30, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Ya&#39;ll so busy in drooling over the deep lafazi that you don&#39;t notice how regressive Khalil Ur Rehman Qamar&#39;s scripts are.<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; \u270d\ufe0f (@AimmySays) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/AimmySays\/status\/1188068619651026946?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 26, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">The reason I never liked his dramas. Honestly I don&#39;t get the hype surrounding his scripts. Even deep lafazi can&#39;t change that. His dramas are so regressive and women in his dramas are always portrayed as heartless, selfish creatures which is so wrong.<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; r (@bookstea14) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/bookstea14\/status\/1188249875772780544?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 27, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">YES. I have said this a lot of times that Khalil-ur-rehman qamar has shitty scripts in which women are always portrayed as villians when as a society, we have already oppressed women beyond their strength.  Loug wese hi aurton ko gold diggers kehte hain, ab aur bakwaas hogi.<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Aleezeh Fatimah (@dalchawalorrone) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/dalchawalorrone\/status\/1188105117184212995?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 26, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Some pointed out how most Pakistani television content has that same prejudiced tone. No wonder television is a dying art.<\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/twitter.com\/sanarites\/status\/1189558853240799232<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Khalil ur rehman Qamar types are present in almost every channel, film company or studio, fashion world, styling, media houses, post production, music industry, we all know it. It shows in our films morning shows News Tv dramas. Darkness is fed openly by creeps. Its all True!<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; jami-\u0627\u0632\u0627\u0631 (@jamiazaad) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/jamiazaad\/status\/1190070855801413632?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">November 1, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In the end like most of Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar&#8217;s conversations, it boiled down to why people shouldn&#8217;t criticize <strong><em>Mere Pass Tum Ho<\/em><\/strong>. Even then he singled out women on this point.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;Women should not criticise \u201c<em>Mere Pass Tum Ho\u201d<\/em>\u00a0because women themselves have ridiculed men.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The man didn&#8217;t stop there he went on to elaborate on how all women are not women for him. Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar was clear a woman to him &#8216;<em>is loyal or she&#8217;s not a woman<\/em>&#8216;.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;Like it or not, I don\u2019t call every woman a woman. To me, the only beautiful trait a woman can possess is her loyalty and her modesty. If a woman isn\u2019t loyal then she is not a woman.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: center; letter-spacing: 5px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0;\">ALSO READ<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"font-size: 20px; font-weight: 600; font-family: Raleway ,sans-serif;\" href=\"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/acknowledging-male-rape-osman-khalid-butt-stands-with-jami\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Acknowledging Male Rape, Osman Khalid Butt Stands With Jami<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Of course, no misogynistic exchange is complete without a dig at #MeToo.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;Someone to try me under #MeToo, I won\u2019t care about that either,&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Then there was the argument of male advocates for women rights are just catfishing.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cRather than figuring out your own rights, you\u2019re only asking your part from men\u2019s rights. That\u2019s never going to happen!\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar then gloated about how he&#8217;s never getting canceled.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cThe\u00a0most one of these feminist groups can do is chant slogans against me, tweet a few thousand tweets but that\u2019s it! Women can\u2019t do anything else.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>https:\/\/twitter.com\/ayeshakhalid7\/status\/1190006151594872832<\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/twitter.com\/imahashah\/status\/1189931342978539520<\/p>\n<p>via <a href=\"https:\/\/thecurrent.pk\/kaaf-kangana-writer-says-women-should-rape-men-if-they-want-equality\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">The Current<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Much like the rest of the world, the South Asian community is also working on women-centric film and drama. Yet, famed writer Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar can&#8217;t wrap his head around gender equality. 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