{"id":238902,"date":"2019-11-15T15:03:29","date_gmt":"2019-11-15T10:03:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/?p=238902"},"modified":"2019-11-15T15:03:29","modified_gmt":"2019-11-15T10:03:29","slug":"desi-groom-gets-beaten-at-his-own-wedding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/desi-groom-gets-beaten-at-his-own-wedding\/","title":{"rendered":"Desi Groom Gets Beaten at His Own Wedding"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Desi weddings are such great fun, from traditions and customs, to dancing the night away, and let&#8217;s face it , those occasional family feuds. One wedding took a family feud too far, with a groom&#8217;s beatdown at his own &#8216;<em>doodh pilai<\/em>&#8216; in Sri Lanka.<\/p>\n<p>Then again, desi mom science deems drinking milk to be the cure for wellness, so he&#8217;ll be fine (probably).<\/p>\n<h3>Weddings and Beatdowns<\/h3>\n<p>Weddings are never about the groom of course. They tend to be all about the bride. We just never pictured a groom having his moment like this though. And yes, there were tears. That&#8217;s really not the standard idea of a wedding day beatdown<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: center; letter-spacing: 5px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0;\">ALSO READ<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"font-size: 20px; font-weight: 600; font-family: Raleway ,sans-serif;\" href=\"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/indian-couple-just-ended-their-marriage-over-food-at-the-wedding\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Indian Couple Just Ended Their Marriage Over Food at the Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>We all have a story or two to tell about what goes down at a <em>doodh pilai<\/em>. What could go wrong with the &#8216;ritual&#8217; of the bride\u2019s sisters, cousins or friends bring a decorated glass of milk for the groom and have the groom then pay for it? Priceless moments, am I right?<\/p>\n<p>In this particular case, the bride, Bano&#8217;s family in Maraka village took the &#8216;<em>pay up<\/em>&#8216; part too serious. They beat up the groom Habib Muhammad for paying Rs 1000 when the demanded amount was Rs. 2000 (who said that money can&#8217;t buy love?).<\/p>\n<div data-mode=\"normal\" data-provider=\"facebook\" id=\"arve-facebook-httpswebfacebookcomptioverseasusavideos2275617989377356v2275617989377356\" style=\"max-width:662px;\" class=\"arve\">\n<div class=\"arve-inner\">\n<div class=\"arve-embed arve-embed--has-aspect-ratio\">\n<div class=\"arve-ar\" style=\"padding-top:56.250000%\"><\/div>\n<p>\t\t\t<iframe allow=\"accelerometer &#039;none&#039;;autoplay &#039;none&#039;;bluetooth &#039;none&#039;;browsing-topics &#039;none&#039;;camera &#039;none&#039;;clipboard-read &#039;none&#039;;clipboard-write;display-capture &#039;none&#039;;encrypted-media &#039;none&#039;;gamepad &#039;none&#039;;geolocation &#039;none&#039;;gyroscope &#039;none&#039;;hid &#039;none&#039;;identity-credentials-get &#039;none&#039;;idle-detection &#039;none&#039;;keyboard-map &#039;none&#039;;local-fonts;magnetometer &#039;none&#039;;microphone &#039;none&#039;;midi &#039;none&#039;;otp-credentials &#039;none&#039;;payment &#039;none&#039;;picture-in-picture;publickey-credentials-create &#039;none&#039;;publickey-credentials-get &#039;none&#039;;screen-wake-lock &#039;none&#039;;serial &#039;none&#039;;summarizer &#039;none&#039;;sync-xhr;usb &#039;none&#039;;web-share;window-management &#039;none&#039;;xr-spatial-tracking &#039;none&#039;;\" allowfullscreen=\"\" class=\"arve-iframe fitvidsignore\" credentialless data-arve=\"arve-facebook-httpswebfacebookcomptioverseasusavideos2275617989377356v2275617989377356\" data-lenis-prevent=\"\" data-src-no-ap=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fweb.facebook.com%2FPTIOverseas.USA%2Fvideos%2F2275617989377356%2F%3Fv%3D2275617989377356&amp;autoplay=0\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"372.375\" loading=\"lazy\" name=\"\" referrerpolicy=\"no-referrer\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-presentation allow-popups allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\" scrolling=\"no\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fweb.facebook.com%2FPTIOverseas.USA%2Fvideos%2F2275617989377356%2F%3Fv%3D2275617989377356&#038;autoplay=0\" title=\"\" width=\"662\"><\/iframe><\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>When the groom and bride started fighting over the issue, this lead to the groom&#8217;s beatdown by the bride&#8217;s family. Really sending a clear message about marital bliss to come (or martial action, it&#8217;s all in where you place &#8216;<strong><em>I <\/em><\/strong>&#8216;).<\/p>\n<p>Was the fight between the bride and groom that bad, that the family jumped in? Talk about too many cold feet.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: center; letter-spacing: 5px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0;\">ALSO READ<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"font-size: 20px; font-weight: 600; font-family: Raleway ,sans-serif;\" href=\"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/bride-dies-after-consuming-lizard-infected-milk-in-islamabad\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Bride Dies After Consuming \u2018Lizard-Infected\u2019 Milk in Islamabad<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Too bad, you can&#8217;t ring the wedding bells to call off a brawl. But in this case, the unlucky groom really was saved by the bell.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a lesson here folks. This is why we&#8217;re taught to &#8216;choose our battles wisely in marriage&#8217;. Habib, a resident of Habibabad literally got a crash course on that one.<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, someone from the groom&#8217;s side blamed it on &#8216;<em>the other man<\/em>&#8216;. Talk about desi aunty logic, the classic &#8216;<em>it was the other man\/woman<\/em>&#8216; excuse.<\/p>\n<p>The logical explanation would obviously be &#8216;what were they drinking?&#8217;. The <em>doodh pilai<\/em> custom at weddings has the bride take a sip and then the groom takes a sip from the same glass. Legend has it that this causes love between the <em>mian<\/em> and <em>biwi<\/em> to grow.<\/p>\n<p>This <em>doodh pilai<\/em> just resulted in rumors and animosity instead.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Desi weddings are such great fun, from traditions and customs, to dancing the night away, and let&#8217;s face it , those occasional family feuds. 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