{"id":299944,"date":"2021-02-16T15:29:34","date_gmt":"2021-02-16T10:29:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/?p=299944"},"modified":"2021-02-16T15:30:14","modified_gmt":"2021-02-16T10:30:14","slug":"indian-college-makes-girls-take-oath-against-love-marriage-on-valentines-videos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/indian-college-makes-girls-take-oath-against-love-marriage-on-valentines-videos\/","title":{"rendered":"Indian College Makes Girls Take Oath Against Love Marriage [Videos]"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As the world celebrated love and the right to chose your love on the Valentine&#8217;s Day weekend, college girls in India were made to renounce their right to a free-will marriage, AKA love marriage, as it&#8217;s called in South Asia.<\/p>\n<p>40 women, all students of a women\u2019s college in India pledged to not exercise &#8216;love marriage&#8217;, and against giving or receiving dowry. Soon enough the bizarre news landed online.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"zxx\" dir=\"ltr\"><a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/LZtNIBBPOD\">pic.twitter.com\/LZtNIBBPOD<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Vinod Jagdale (@iamvinodjagdale) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/iamvinodjagdale\/status\/1228234346974208000?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">February 14, 2020<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>The oath was administered by teachers at the Mahila Kala Vanijya Mahavidyalaya in Chandur Railway town during a National Service Scheme (NSS) camp. According to the principal of the women&#8217;s college, Rajendra Havre, around 40 out of the 100 girls participating in the camp took the oath.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: center; letter-spacing: 5px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0;\">ALSO READ<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"font-size: 20px; font-weight: 600; font-family: Raleway ,sans-serif;\" href=\"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/villager-duped-into-marrying-a-70-year-old-widow-by-matchmaker-video\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Villager Duped Into Marrying a 70-year-old Widow By Matchmaker [Video]<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/h6kL9Wh7tS?amp=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">Indian Express<\/a> reports that the women&#8217;s college in question is run by an educational organization founded by a late Congress leader and former state Education Minister. It offers undergraduate and postgraduate courses in arts and commerce.<\/p>\n<p>The oath administered to the students was;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cI take the oath that I have complete faith in my parents. So, considering the incidents happening around, I will not get entangled in love and will not do love marriage. Also, I wouldn\u2019t marry anyone demanding dowry. If my parents marry me off by giving dowry due to some social compulsions, as a future mother, I will not take dowry from the parents of my would-be daughter-in-law and will not give dowry for my daughter\u2019s marriage. I am taking this oath for a strong and healthy India.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The pledge is the brainchild of a professor of Political Science at the women&#8217;s college. Pradeep Dande. He rationale against love marriage is to curb violence against women.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cThe idea of administering such an oath came to my mind during a discussion with women at the camp on \u2018Challenges before youths\u2019. It led to the subject of crimes against women. We have witnessed several such crimes\u2026The abiding question is why is this happening? Can we not do something to end it? During the discussion, I asked the girls why they get tempted towards love marriage? Why do girls run away? Have they lost faith in their parents? The idea of oath struck me during the discussion.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>When asked if taking the oath was compulsory, Pradeep Dande said;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cNo. It was optional. We had no intention to impose it on them. So the girls who agreed took the oath while others stayed out.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Meanwhile there was also mention of promoting arranged marriages to ensure no intermixing between casts.<\/p>\n<p>Netizens called out this might as well be a call for intolerance and discrimination.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">A School In Amravati or somewhere<br \/>Made their students take pledge on valentine&#39;s day that they won&#39;t go against their caste or religion and do love marriage instead of teaching them to respect every religion &amp; love them.<br \/>Are we really living in the 21st century??<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Discrimination?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#Discrimination<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Ritvik (@ShettyRitvik18) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ShettyRitvik18\/status\/1228948130571243520?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">February 16, 2020<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/twitter.com\/RangDeTiranga\/status\/1228629459307237376<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Hindu men here acting so righteous like Hindus never oppress women. Chill the f**k out. You are no better than Muslims. Asking women to pledge against love marriage, checking there underwear in Temple. And this\ud83d\udc47. You know, cover in colour is still cover. <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/IRRcjW2c7q\">pic.twitter.com\/IRRcjW2c7q<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Sutirtha (@ginger_bread_s) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ginger_bread_s\/status\/1229149980595834881?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">February 16, 2020<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>People even cited similar indignant instances against women.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Amravati to Bhuj is over 1000 km apart. Yet, these places got so much in common when it comes to exploitation of girls. In a college in Amravati, girls were made to take pledge against love marriage. In Bhuj, girls were stripped to their underwear to segregate menstruating girls.<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Rohin Makkar (@rohino) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/rohino\/status\/1228570631278477313?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">February 15, 2020<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of an intolerance for love, Pakistan faced a similar the situation with Faisalabad University celebrating \u2018<em>Sisters Day<\/em>\u2019 on February 14th.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">College girls in Andhra Pardesh taking a pledge never to fall in love or go for love marriage on Valentine\u2019s Day as it is against our culture. Meanwhile majority of girls in Pakistan are celebrating \u201c Haya Day\u201dand \u201cHijab Day\u201d. <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/dd7D79eXAV\">pic.twitter.com\/dd7D79eXAV<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Syed Najam Ul Hassan Hamdani (@najam_hamdani) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/najam_hamdani\/status\/1228332682976911360?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">February 14, 2020<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: center; letter-spacing: 5px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0;\">ALSO READ<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"font-size: 20px; font-weight: 600; font-family: Raleway ,sans-serif;\" href=\"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/valentines-day-is-no-longer-banned-in-pakistan\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Valentine&#8217;s Day is No Longer Banned in Pakistan<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As the world celebrated love and the right to chose your love on the Valentine&#8217;s Day weekend, college girls in India were made to renounce their right to a free-will marriage, AKA love marriage, as it&#8217;s called in South Asia. 40 women, all students of a women\u2019s college in India pledged to not exercise &#8216;love marriage&#8217;, and against giving or [&hellip;] <a class=\"g1-link g1-link-more\" href=\"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/indian-college-makes-girls-take-oath-against-love-marriage-on-valentines-videos\/\">More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":299960,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1298,2199,1291],"tags":[],"adace-sponsor":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-299944","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-culture","8":"category-featured","9":"category-social-media"},"wps_subtitle":"40 women, all students of a women\u2019s college in India pledged to not exercise 'love marriage'. 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