{"id":330622,"date":"2021-10-14T13:13:04","date_gmt":"2021-10-14T08:13:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/?p=330622"},"modified":"2021-10-14T13:13:04","modified_gmt":"2021-10-14T08:13:04","slug":"chitrals-old-tradition-of-wife-making-roti-husband-helping-out-divides-the-internet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/chitrals-old-tradition-of-wife-making-roti-husband-helping-out-divides-the-internet\/","title":{"rendered":"Chitral&#8217;s Old Tradition of Wife Making Roti, Husband Helping Out Divides the Internet"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Every place has its own tradition and customs. Just because they&#8217;re not what we&#8217;ve been conditioned to accept doesn&#8217;t make it wrong. That&#8217;s not what a lot of people had to say about an old marital tradition in Chitral.<\/p>\n<p>A video of Chitral&#8217;s old tradition <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/yasiralihamza\/status\/1447615372656586752\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">making rounds online<\/a>. While some appreciate the unique custom, others couldn&#8217;t accept or respect the difference.<\/p>\n\t\t<div class=\"p-alsoread\">\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\"heading\">ALSO READ<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<div><a href=\"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/yasra-rizvi-raises-awareness-on-toxic-marriages-with-a-powerful-shoot\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Yasra Rizvi Raises Awareness On Toxic Marriages with a Powerful Shoot<\/a><\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\n<p>The custom involved the wife making roti with the husband&#8217;s help on the wedding day. This old tradition sets the tone for the marriage with cooperation between the newlyweds.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">An old but beautiful tradition in a village of <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Chitral?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#Chitral<\/a> where the bride is asked to make a &quot;Roti&quot; on their wedding day &amp; the groom helps her. This way, their marital life begins with mutal cooperation &amp; love! \ud83d\ude0a <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/vodtxNlXVq\">pic.twitter.com\/vodtxNlXVq<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; HAY (@becharacivilian) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/becharacivilian\/status\/1447615372656586752?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 11, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The festivities also involve singing a local folksong during this ritual.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Basically it\u2019s know as the ceremony of twao! Local Fock songs are sung when the ceremony held its important part of the marriage ceremony<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Afaq Haider (@madhosh2021) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/madhosh2021\/status\/1448054941545910275?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 12, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>People didn&#8217;t get the point of lauding men for a skill women are &#8216;expected&#8217; to have.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">just beautiful how he got a standing-O for a basic motor skill <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/M0aiaTg3pf\">https:\/\/t.co\/M0aiaTg3pf<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; HawkesBay (L\u00f8uche) (@HawkesBay) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/HawkesBay\/status\/1447895589577011217?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 12, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>While some Netizens loved the old tradition from Chitral, many online weren&#8217;t as open-minded.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Thank God I don&#39;t come from Chitral else I would have failed terribly at making roti and my husband would have disowned me then and there. Phew!<\/p>\n<p>P.s: this is the cutest thing on Internet today <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/CcZKT9X8KZ\">https:\/\/t.co\/CcZKT9X8KZ<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Rimsha Tahir (@rumshum12) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/rumshum12\/status\/1447923333413097484?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 12, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Many found the tradition and what it stood for, to be beautiful.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">An absolutely beautiful tradition, probably the best I have ever seen. <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/GQBPvjNOeb\">https:\/\/t.co\/GQBPvjNOeb<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; That Goy (@NaiKaroYar) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/NaiKaroYar\/status\/1448089916135682048?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 13, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Many agreed that marriages thrive with mutual cooperation. Therefore setting the tone of marriage with that sentiment is a great idea.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Oh my Gosh \ud83d\ude42This brings a smile to my face. When ever I am making roti my husband starts helping me just like that \ud83d\ude42MashaAllah No doubt marriage thrives on mutual cooperation \ud83d\ude42 <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/FUtmyq7QK1\">https:\/\/t.co\/FUtmyq7QK1<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; \ud835\udd6d\ud835\udd8a\ud835\udd8a\ud835\udd93\ud835\udd8e\ud835\udd98\ud835\udd8d\ud83e\udd8b (@been1shh) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/been1shh\/status\/1448081540320309258?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 13, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Traditions like this r what the actual soul of any tradition should b; love, simplicity and a way of bonding. That&#39;s so beautiful and their smiles&#8230;\ud83d\udc97 <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/Wc105WjJSV\">https:\/\/t.co\/Wc105WjJSV<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; AyshaZ (@AfAysh) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/AfAysh\/status\/1448110388294438915?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 13, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Aside from the tradition, the roti is special too, and hard to flip apparently.<\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/twitter.com\/seditiousmusing\/status\/1447955425605955589<\/p>\n\t\t<div class=\"p-alsoread\">\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\"heading\">ALSO READ<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<div><a href=\"https:\/\/propakistani.pk\/lens\/riz-ahmed-pauses-the-oscars-red-carpet-to-fix-his-wifes-hair\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Riz Ahmed Pauses the Oscars Red Carpet to Fix His Wife&#8217;s Hair<\/a><\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\n<p>A lot of people were really feeling the love.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">So wholesome!!!! <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/Sz5nuYnjBz\">https:\/\/t.co\/Sz5nuYnjBz<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; H. (@SonOfAnarchy_14) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SonOfAnarchy_14\/status\/1447964290904903681?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 12, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Chitral is peace and love. <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/xhNbBqH3UK\">https:\/\/t.co\/xhNbBqH3UK<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Nasir Khattak (@nasirjkhattak) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/nasirjkhattak\/status\/1447979000656240648?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 12, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>People were quoting other traditions from Chitral too.<\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/twitter.com\/MHuzaifaNizam\/status\/1447942355143864322<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>People also emphasized the need to preserve cultural identity.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">We always copy others traditions and culture but forget our beautiful, wholesome and aesthetic traditions. <br \/>This is so beautiful \ud83d\udc96 <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/ofjPthhVt4\">https:\/\/t.co\/ofjPthhVt4<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; I. (@ehehehsan) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ehehehsan\/status\/1447924170810171393?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 12, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>What do you think of this old tradition from Chitral? Is it wholesome or are you not on board with the idea? Let us know in the comments below.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every place has its own tradition and customs. Just because they&#8217;re not what we&#8217;ve been conditioned to accept doesn&#8217;t make it wrong. That&#8217;s not what a lot of people had to say about an old marital tradition in Chitral. A video of Chitral&#8217;s old tradition making rounds online. 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