How to Handle a Wife

How to handle a wife

If you want to have a happy married life then you have to learn the art of handling your wife. Whether you are a newly married couple or married for years, every husband wants to know how to handle a wife. You learn this art with time and experience.

It is a self-learning process and you get to know about your wife with time. What does she like? What kind of personality she has? You need to figure out the answer to these questions if you want happiness, peace and love in your married life.

Want to know how to handle a wife? In this article, we will give you some tips and tricks to handle your difficult wife. It is a difficult job to do but we hope the tips in the article will help you in your married life.

To Deal with a Difficult Wife

If your wife argues a lot in day to day life and you don’t know how to deal with it then don’t worry we got you. You need to follow some tips to avoid having arguments with your wife.

  • If she is angry at you then don’t reply with anger. Try to remain cool.
  • If she is arguing with you then listen to your wife with attention.
  • Think before you speak. If you both are arguing on something then think before you speak because expressing your feeling verbally without thinking will lead to a conflict between you and your wife. It is better to avoid such arguments in married life.

These are some of the tips to deal with a difficult wife. There are some other ways you can deal with a difficult wife and you will learn it with time and experience.

To Live Happily With Your Wife

Women don’t want expensive gifts from you, they want your attention and nice compliments from you. So here are some tips for you to live happily with your wife.

  • Don’t argue with your wife and try to listen to her carefully. Small things matter to women so you should listen to your wife carefully and have complete attention towards your wife.
  • Take your wife out for shopping.
  • Take her out for dinner.
  • Give her gifts and surprise her. 
  • Call her or message her when you are in your office. Ask how is she and what she is doing.
  • Try to make her believe she is the most beautiful woman in the world. Women do like these kinds of compliments so complimenting about her beauty is the smartest thing to do.
  • Don’t compare her with another woman in your life. If you compare your wife with another woman then she might get jealous.
  • Don’t forget your wife birthday and wedding anniversary if you want to live happily with your wife.


To Deal with Nagging Wife

Many husbands complain about their wives that they nag so much. Sometimes their wives irritate so much that they get angry. To deal with a nagging wife and avoid fights with your wife then you should follow some tips.

  • If your wife is nagging so much then try to remain cool and try to find out the reason behind your wife nagging.

Why your wife nags so much?

  • There are many reasons behind a nagging wife. Your wife nagging can be linked-to stresses in day to day life. Sometimes it is a hormonal issue and sometimes it is a money problem. These factors can cause your wife to react angrily to every situation. All your wife anger will be directed towards you. You will feel irritated by your wife actions.  
  • As we mentioned the reasons behind the nagging wife, you need to find one and address the problem.
  • You should use a sympathetic tone with your nagging wife. If you use a sympathetic tone instead of unsympathetic one then your wife will not feel preventive and you will see a change in her behavior.
  • You should clarify your feelings and have a good conversation with your wife. Try to tell your wife about how you are feeling.
  • You must find a common ground if you don’t want to argue with your wife.   

Using these tips will help you to deal with a nagging wife. We cannot say for sure these tips will help everyone but you can try them if your wife is an irritating one.

Handling your marriage

Wondering how to handle a wife? The tips we have mentioned above in the article are as important as the one we are going to mention now. It is not possible for you to remain happy every day in your married life but these tips will certainly help you in married life.

Marriage is about compromise. Sometimes you need to compromise and sometimes your wife needs to compromise. Marriage is a two-way road, husband and wife both have to work for it if they want happiness and peace in their married life.

If you want to handle your marriage then you need to follow these tips. Here are tips for all the husbands who want to handle their marriage and want to spend married life happily.

1.   Figure out your Wife’s Personality

 All women are different and it is job of the husband to figure out his wife personality. The behavior, nature and character of every woman will be different from each other. If you want happiness then figure out your wife behavior, character and nature.

All women have different likes and dislikes. Some women like to travel and some like to stay at home. It is up to the husband to understand the likes and dislikes of his wife.

If you are able to figure out the personality of your wife then you will react and behave accordingly to your wife personality. This process of figuring out of your wife personality will help you in day to day life. Things will run smoothly and there will be happiness and love in your married life.

2.   Allow your Wife do things her way

If you allow your wife to manage all home-related matters then there is a less chance of fights between both of you. Women are better in managing all home-related matters so let your wife decide the furniture of the house or which things will be in the bedroom.

If you do not let your wife manage all home-related matters then frustration in your wife will increase. This frustration will lead to conflict between both of you.

3.   Learn how to handle a wife by supporting her

Any wife would want support from their husband. If the husband does not support his wife then she will think that her husband does not love her. As a husband, you should always support your wife. If she is wrong then try not to insult her. Talk to her and allow your wife to understand her mistake.

4.   Give your Wife some Space

If you let your wife go out with her friends and let her spend some time with friends then your wife will feel happy. If you don’t let her go out and spend time with her friends then you are not giving your wife space. By not giving space to your wife, frustration in your wife will increase which result in a fight between both of you.

5.   Be Appreciative to your Wife

If you want your wife to be happy then appreciate your wife. Appreciate her on the things she does in daily life. Try to respect and admire your wife as well. So better to appreciate and admire your wife.

These are some of the tips you should follow if you want happiness in your married life. If there is happiness in your married life then your life will be less stressful. To keep your wife happy, you need to tell her how much you love her and how beautiful she is.

Try to create memories with your wife. Try to do things which your wife like. If your wife like travelling then take her out and travel to the places which she likes. If she wants to go out with her friends then do not stop her from going out.

These small things matter if you want happiness in married life. If your wife wants to watch a movie in a cinema then take her to the cinema. The most important thing a husband should not forget is the wedding anniversary.

Take her out on your wedding anniversary and arrange something special for a special occasion. These are some of the tips for every husband in the world if they want to know how to handle their wife.   

Written by Umer Zahid