Saba Qamar has finally opened up about her aversion to arranged marriages. She says that she’s not cut out to be the ‘perfect bahu’. Her recent comments give us a view of how society needs to shave off regressive beliefs about what women want or should want.
If the decision not to get married wasn’t enough, Saba Qamar startled fans with her views on parenting. As it turns out, this is a huge reason why the starlet wants to steer clear of commitments like an arranged marriage. The Cheekh actress told Bol News that she doesn’t want to have children.
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Since the Baaghi actress doesn’t want to be a mother, it’s not something she wants to be coerced into in an arranged marriage.
Saba Qamar on marriages
Saba Qamar shared how in arranged marriages, despite all differences one thing both people agree on is the need for a spouse and children. The Digest Writer actress doesn’t want to be tied down by such ‘typical commitments’.
“When people around me discussed their future, no matter how different their plans might be from one another, they always had one thing in common; they saw themselves with a spouse and kids.”
Despite the traditional idea of how women should want to be mothers, Saba Qamar spelled it out pretty clearly. Not all women want children.
“I realized the idea of having children didn’t really appeal to me. Having a husband and children is something every woman must do as this is the only concern in our society.”
When it comes to the notion of commitment, the actress says that she will accept her partner for who he is, and expects the same in return. The same goes for her in-laws. If they aren’t compatible then they just weren’t meant to be.
“If I am interested in a guy myself, I usually do make it a point to ask him about his thoughts and telling him mine, and if our views don’t align, I usually just nip it in the bud.”
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The Karachi Se Lahore actress asserted how the decision of childbearing is that of the woman alone. However, most people in our society don’t realize this.
“My decision on whether or not I should have children is entirely mine and mine alone.”
What do you think of Saba Qamar and her views on marriage?
Its good thing that she describes herself before any commitment.Now if anyone agrees to her terms, he may propose the lady. Otherwise, let her live a happy single life.
Well quite baaghi but good she is same inside out✨❤️
I really appreciate her for what she says 🙂 atleast someone spoke
Her views are clear I agree with her..in our society 60% of girls are working nowadays and earning more than men so they have every right to decide their future…if a woman have to feed a family when others order and control her life. I am happy girls are becoming practical
All her views show that she is mentally sick….
Saba appears to be nice with very smart thinking she opens her thoughts to all concernd people .One should be careful to knock her door now.I appreciate this thinking to stop all complications before it happens.Time will tell us how successfully she endures
If she doesn’t want kids it means then she is fit to be second wife. There are men in society who wants to have second wife but doesn’t want kids.
yes i strongly agree with you. dear Saba…
bounding in the *shadi* relation shouldn’t be priority of every women…
women should feel free to choose her partner…
but should be very careful in this matter…